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Here Begins the Discussion
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OscagneTX has entered the room.
OscagneTX: you beat me.
aggirlj has entered the room.
OscagneTX: howdy
aggirlj: Hey Joe, thought I'd give it another try.
OscagneTX: another?
aggirlj: Kultsi is going to be here. In fact if you can invite him why dontcha?
OscagneTX: ok
Kultsi KN has entered the room.
Kultsi KN: Hi all!
OscagneTX: howdy
aggirlj: Hi again Kultsi
Kultsi KN: This has usually been an hour later -- not that I complain; I get to bed at a more decent time.
OscagneTX: It's the same time... we haven't started yet.
aggirlj: Is it an hour to go?
OscagneTX: We have another... 1:10.
aggirlj: Oh, well then, I'll continue with my laundry. Sorry, just hanging out here then.
OscagneTX: hehe
OscagneTX: Central time, Jane. %^)
aggirlj: I get confused, duh.
OscagneTX: I was just lurking to get early-comers.
aggirlj: Could I make a suggestion?
OscagneTX: use eastern time?
Kultsi KN: Ok, GA
aggirlj: I find it awfully hard to follow along with these chats if people are continually interupting a thought. Is there a way to kind of stay with one person and comment on that?
OscagneTX: With a moderator, I suppose.
OscagneTX: I don't really like the idea, myself.
aggirlj: Can we get a consensus at the beginning and try to at least hold comment a little bit until everyone is on the same page?
OscagneTX: The early chats were organized with some kind of moderation, I think, but that was when big-time authors were guesting.
aggirlj: Oh.
OscagneTX: I don't get what you mean... you mean sorta shut everyone up and then start the topic formally?
Kultsi KN: It was very much politeness towards the guests
aggirlj: Not really intending to shut anyone up.
OscagneTX: that's just verbal shorthand for "get everyone's attention and ask them to withhold comment until a formal topic is proposed."
Kultsi KN: I think Jane means to have one person get all finished before starting yakking about what was said.
OscagneTX: K: We'd have to have formal moderation for that, I think.
aggirlj: Of course being on the hot seat would be a bit intimidating, for me at least.
OscagneTX: I've never been a formal moderator. Have you, K?
OscagneTX: I've never even been in a formally moderated chat.
aggirlj: I like the free flow of some of this but I really was lost Thursday.
Kultsi KN: Well, David did do a fairly good bit of, informal perhaps, moderation.
OscagneTX: The way the used to do it was, anyone who had a question would type "question" and then wait to actually post the question until David called on them.
OscagneTX: Going from the logs, that is.
aggirlj: I remember that.
Kultsi KN: I have never been on a chat _that_ formal
aggirlj: It worked somewhat. But you have some very strong and forceful people who need to be heard sometimes.
OscagneTX: But... we don't really have a guest. We'll probably have to revert to that if I can ever get us a guest again. I've got inquiries in to NASA, and Homer Hickham says he'll join us in about May.
Kultsi KN: But prompting people really does the same thing
aggirlj: Just a thought.
OscagneTX: I _don't_ want to leave anyone behind, and we can definetly bring it up for discussion once everyone gets here. Or post it for input on afh.
aggirlj: Kewl.
aggirlj: Back to the laundry. See you in about 45
OscagneTX: Ok.
OscagneTX: afk
Kultsi KN: Me too -- not laundry until tomorrow, but other things. Cya in an hour.
OscagneTX: b
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aggirlj: Hi Steph,
Merfilly27: howdy
OscagneTX: howdy
aggirlj: Joe, are you there. Ron needs help getting in the room.
OscagneTX: dehede, right?
aggirlj: Right
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OscagneTX: Howdy.
aggirlj: Xlent
Dehede011: Thank you for the invite.
Merfilly27: np
OscagneTX: No problem.
aggirlj: I haven't yet figured it out.
Kultsi KN: Hello Steph, Ron!
OscagneTX: Are you using a Mac, Jane?
Merfilly27: gee seems we just met, Kultsi
aggirlj: Yes
Dehede011: Well, Janie, you have everything else figured out so all goes well.
aggirlj: :-)
Kultsi KN: Indeed, Steph -- just making this formal :-P
OscagneTX: Okay, so I'd be clueless to help.
Dehede011: We will overlook one little shortcoming.
Merfilly27: as if we have ever stood on formality, mon ami
Dehede011: Hi, Merphilly
aggirlj: There is always the "kindness of strangers" to help out.
Merfilly27: hello
Dehede011: What is going on that is new and exciting??
Merfilly27: Spirit snarked a Boojum
Merfilly27: :-)
aggirlj: Did you read tht tiny url on what's wrong with the lander?
Dehede011: No, what is it.
aggirlj: Very funny.
OscagneTX: That was a joke, Jane.
OscagneTX: Oh, ok.
Kultsi KN: There is this new exciting book in circulation.
OscagneTX: Some folks were having trouble getting it.
aggirlj: Are you kidding?????
Dehede011: FUTL?
OscagneTX: Thanks for noticing, Kultsi...
OscagneTX: "Dystopic Utopias"
Kultsi KN: That's the one, Ron.
OscagneTX: By me.
OscagneTX: %^)
aggirlj: Yea!
Dehede011: I understand EU is out in a hardback edition
Dehede011: I have always thought that TEFL was a major dividing line in RAHs career. Now I am trying to figure out if FUTL changes my opinion on that.
aggirlj: Have you read FUTL completely or as I am not finished yet?
Dehede011: I've finished FUTL
aggirlj: What did you think?
Merfilly27: with TEFL, he went back to FUTL's idealism?
aggirlj: For a first attempt.
Dehede011: It isn't bad, it makes us revise some of our thinking in that some of his ideas formed earlier than I first believed
OscagneTX: How are you connecting TEFL and FUTL?
Dehede011: Me or Murph?
OscagneTX: either
Merfilly27: He tackled customs in FUTL...but customs are mere extensions of taboos, which TEFL dealt with breaking
Dehede011: I am not connecting it yet, at least not in a major way, but it has me looking for a connection
OscagneTX: I'd say FUTL is more about having different taboos than about breaking any.
OscagneTX: I just got the impression of a very repressed societyl.
aggirlj: Certainly restricted in some sense.
aggirlj: By custom.
Merfilly27: yes, but I am not decisively connecting the two...just noting that TEFL is the ex perienced retake of culture with his hopes of FUTL there
Dehede011: FUTL has me thinking about the connection between Heinlein's ideas on sexual practices and the practices outlined in the Officers etiquette manual for the US Navy
OscagneTX: ?
Dehede011: I used to have a copy of the Officer's Manual and this has me wondering if I still do.
Dehede011: Pretend for a moment that Jane and I are married and I am a Naval Officer as Heinlein was?
OscagneTX: Ok.
Dehede011: So you gentlemen on here today and are brother officers.
OscagneTX: ok
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Merfilly27: I don't wanna be a gentleman
Merfilly27: :-)
Dehede011: I am at sea and word comes to me that one of my brother officers has been seen dining out with Jane.
aggirlj: LOL
OscagneTX: Okaaaaaay.
Dehede011: According to the Navy Manual what should my reaction be?
OscagneTX: Put it off until you get back? Repress it?
aggirlj: He's a brother officer and honorable.
Dehede011: Anyone want to take a try at that?
aggirlj: Until proven otherwise.
Dehede011: Yes, he is a brother officer and assumed to be honorable.
Merfilly27: afk
Dehede011: I am to be grateful that a brother officer saw fit to get Jane out of the house for a couple of hours.
OscagneTX: hehe
Dehede011: I am not to consider that he might not be honorable until I have evidence to the contrary.
aggirlj: Would there not be a list of acceptable escorts and might he not be on that list.
Dehede011: Jane and I may have a list of guys that are off limits -- yes, but that is private
Dehede011: Now, my question is this?
Dehede011: Given the background that I have just given you just how strange is Heinlein's mores
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aggirlj: Hi Jackie.
OscagneTX: howdy
starfall2: hi
starfall2: i guess this is going to kill any chance of me unpacking from winter break before my roomies get back =P
OscagneTX: %^)
Dehede011: Now let me have Merfilly for a wife and let Jane be married to one of you other gentlemen.
OscagneTX: Ok.
OscagneTX: (jackie... just hypothetical)
Dehede011: The way things were often actually done would be for Merfilly and I to take Jane out while her hubby was at sea.
starfall2: i figured that out
aggirlj: Exactly correct.
OscagneTX: Right.
Dehede011: But that other example was in the manual.
Merfilly27: b
OscagneTX: That was _in_ the manual? I'd have thought that'd be one of those "unspoken" things.
aggirlj: From what I understand thinking back to then, no woman would be out with any other man if married than her husband.
Dehede011: Still I am asking given his background was Heinlein so strange??
Merfilly27: No, there are explicit examples of conduct in the manual...remember from my JROTC
Dehede011: I bought my copy in 1955 roughly -- could have been 56
aggirlj: In the military there are differences, but the women seem to be the judges or critics in this regard.
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OscagneTX: howdy.
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starfall2: hi
JudyjediJudy: Hello.
Dehede011: Howdy
Aurorax13: hi
OscagneTX: howdy
Merfilly27: hey Stranger Dee
Merfilly27: :-)
aggirlj: Hi Dee.
Merfilly27: hello JJJ
jilyd: Fancy meeting you here, steph!
Merfilly27: ;-)
Merfilly27: you know, I had the same feeling with Kultsi
Dehede011: Is my brain misfiring, I thought Dee was on here when I came on?
Kultsi KN: Hi, gals!
Merfilly27: And I missed Aurora
Merfilly27: hi there
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Aurorax13: HI
aggirlj: And what I mean by that is there is a hierarchy within the married women in the military and you are made to conduct yourself in certain ways.
Aurorax13: well I am here right now but I need to cook and make arrangements for my children for the evening
OscagneTX: Okay... so how are you relating the Naval ettiquite to FUTL, Ron?
jilyd: Hi, Judy and Aurorax. I'm Dee. And no, Ron, you were here ahead of me.
Dehede011: I haven't experienced that but as one woman's conduct would reflect on the others I imagine you are right
Dehede011: I just think I detect a familiar ring to the non jealousy pattern
aggirlj: During the 50's.
Dehede011: Hi Dee.
aggirlj: Jealousy is a wasted emotion.
starfall2: brb
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OscagneTX: Maybe... seems like to me a manual from the '30s would be more trying to control the behavior, and the folks in FUTL were trying to control the emtions, themselves.
OscagneTX: howdy.
Merfilly27: who here has not felt at least a pinch of the green monster in their past?
Dehede011: Oh Jane, I have taken leave of my senses. In the Navy I believe there is a little hierarchy among the wives with the CO's wife being the ranking wife.
aggirlj: Hand up.
BPRAL22169: Me too
Dehede011: Hi Bill.
BPRAL22169: Yo
Merfilly27: Then you are a fine woman, for as tolerant as I am, I did get miffed at being ignored by my love in favor of others at time
aggirlj: Hey, when did you sneak in, Hi Bill.
BPRAL22169: Oh, I've been here for a bit. I came in almost on the dot.
aggirlj: Wellll, maybe a long time ago.
aggirlj: I did get that green thingy.
Merfilly27: hiya Bill...I missed you too
BPRAL22169: I'm not sure "being miffed at being ignored" quite qualifies as jealousy -- it's one of the things you could do about being jealous.
Dehede011: brb, I am going to make a quick scan for my manual.
Merfilly27: it was jealousy, for I would find myself less civil with my rivals
BPRAL22169: But, generally, one can have appropraite feelings about being treated one way or another
jilyd: When I think of jealousy, I think of the kind that is full of suspicion. I have never had that kind.
aggirlj: Get away from that fast. Eats one up.
jilyd: But I have sometimes fallen prey to feeling left out.
Merfilly27: I find the people of FUTL too flat...lacking most of the deeper passions
Merfilly27: I have not been bitten by that one either, Dee
BPRAL22169: Yeahbut -- "feeling left out" isn't jealousy -- it's feeling left out
Merfilly27: just the little green monster
aggirlj: I agree Steph. I think it's because he chose to limit his exposition for some reason.
OscagneTX: My jealousy has always had root in insecurity. When I root out the insecurity, the jealousy follows.
jilyd: THe way not to have jealousy is to remember that you believe in your partner's honor.
BPRAL22169: There's a danger to that approach, Dee --
BPRAL22169: when your partner's conception of honor differs from yours.
BPRAL22169: The better way is to say to yourself: "it's not about me."
Merfilly27: I've never been jealous on a "physical" level...only on one of room in the heart, so to speak
jilyd: Well, to believe in it, you sort of have to both be onthe same page.
BPRAL22169: I'd say, again, that's not jealousy, Steph. Maybe an analogy of jealousy, though.
Merfilly27: (by the way, I may be distracted, the girls are changing their brother's diaper)
BPRAL22169: Not having one's proper social place acknowledged is a factual, social trauma (in the loose sense).
BPRAL22169: It's one of those things Aristotle talks about under the combined heading of "honor" in the Nichomachean Ethics -- public virtues.
BPRAL22169: Recognizing and feeling bad about a social insult is not pathological.
Dehede011: Nope, it seems to be gone, but I still have my Watch Officer's Guide
jilyd: Oops, gotta run. See you guys another time.
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Dehede011: Bye Dee.
aggirlj: Dee left so fast Steph was booted but you got back quick!
Kultsi KN: LOL
aggirlj: I wonder why there was so little expositon in FUTL?
Dehede011: I was a Naval Aviation Cadet but that was for training and there was a degree of professionalism.
BPRAL22169: Exposition of what, Jane?
Dehede011: Economics??? LOL
aggirlj: More about main characters, especially where I am right now and Diana.
OscagneTX: I've always liked a start en medias res.
moultonfcx: Don't forget Olga as a main character.
BPRAL22169: I thought he did almost all of his character development in the scenes; I came out with a clear sense of their personalities.